tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1384708973424878027.post2086070249200192425..comments2023-04-27T08:17:00.326-07:00Comments on Maybe Baby...: One year, one month and one week.Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08145323483666101111noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1384708973424878027.post-13506838710806767792012-07-17T10:20:10.281-07:002012-07-17T10:20:10.281-07:00By "she" I mean my cousin's wife. I ...By "she" I mean my cousin's wife. I guess at least it's easy to avoid someone when you're on a different continent!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08145323483666101111noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1384708973424878027.post-41419995702589388452012-07-17T10:19:10.305-07:002012-07-17T10:19:10.305-07:00It's my cousin who said all that about how the...It's my cousin who said all that about how they "completely understand" (my cousin is a guy). But she probably thinks she really does understand... ugh! I don't begrudge them their happiness, but someone who has a healthy 2 year old and another baby due in 2 months doesn't know how it feels to not know if you'll ever have a baby. A few months of trying - I'd have given anything for that to be us. I wouldn't wish IF on anybody, but after all the years of preventing pregnancy I really didn't think it would be this difficult to get pregnant! I always thought it was so important to be super responsible with birth control, and now I'm wondering if I ever really needed it at all.<br />Thanks for the support, it really helps! I wish none of us had to be in this situation at all. xoxoEmilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08145323483666101111noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1384708973424878027.post-69440470018207476332012-07-17T09:54:22.657-07:002012-07-17T09:54:22.657-07:00I'm glad your Pug event went good, sorry AF ca...I'm glad your Pug event went good, sorry AF came to the event.... Wish she could have stayed home fore the next 9 months. <br />Hang in there...<br />And as for the empathetic mother of soon to be baby... well she has no idea...and you don't have to call her, if she knew really how hard this was she never would have said "I understand" - because when you say to someone how long have you been trying and it's over 6 months, you are officially okay in my IF book... anything under that unless you are seriously ill or had loss, you are not really on par with my situation. Although i have been "trying" for 3 years this fall.... You my Dear are just as deserving of a child as I am, you have really been trying...and 1 year - 1 Month and 1 days is too long to wait and so is 2 years 8 months and 2 days... Don't let then tell you you are comparable - you are amazingly strong and you can do this, RELAX, please slap her next time she says that, you have my permission...We were relaxed, got us no where... Sorry for the rant, But don't let that person get to you... <br />xo Pug Mumas for life!Ali Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13352982516078904774noreply@blogger.com